This documentary about a
trans man and his rural Georgia family and friends won the Grand Jury Prize at
Sundance. FTM Robert Eads lives in self-described "Bubbaland," and the
film follows him in the year that he is diagnosed with what he considers a cruel
joke, ovarian cancer. More than twenty doctors refuse to treat him. This
is also the story of Robert's lover Lola, who is MTF and must take on an increasing
caretaker role as he becomes more ill. Also profiled are close friends Maxwell
(FTM) and his lover Corissa (MTF), and FTM Cas, who lives with Stephanie, a straight
woman. Robert is a father figure to many younger FTM's in Georgia, and he leads
workshops at Southern Comfort, an annual trans convention in Atlanta. Although
he identifies as a heterosexual man, he was out to his family as a lesbian before
top surgery and hormone treatments. Essentially, Robert is denied medical
treatment, and we watch him waste away over the year that the film is in progress.
Said filmmaker Kate Davis, "The way minority groups are mistreated has always
seemed to me to be closely tied to ignorance, and so my approach to my film subjects
is to move in very close, to take audiences in to the personal space of those
considered different, a place where it becomes harder to shut the door on them." This
is a very personal portrait featuring brave participants. Robert had this to say
about the documentary: "If this film helps one other trans-man go to a doctor,
or changes the heart of one straight person, then it's worth it." |